Tuesday, January 13, 2009
suddenly had the impulse to write an essay...no lah actually was inspired by ppl. cos lastrina wrote on her facebook wall about marriages... how seriously do ppl take relationships actually? from virtual ones to real life ones...is it just something to cure loneliness or to boost their ego? (the "hey someone likes me!" kind) from a real life pov...i've always thought that marriage means forever, really the 'till death do us part' kind. if so, why are there so many cases of divorce? o.o
cant help but remember a joke...imagine there is a department store that 'sells' husbands. it allows women to go from lvl1 to 6 or 7, cant remember, looking for their ideal partner. the catch is, u're not supposed to go back to a lvl once u've left it. lvl1 has all those men who knows how to help in housework, lvl2 has those who not only helps in housework but are also very caring, so on and so forth. meaning their good qualities increase from each lvl lah. so my point is...many ppl go in and came out without finding someone. some settle for what they do not really want but cos they do not want to be alone, something's better than nothing mah.
what's the point of 'settling' for someone whom u know is not what u really want? u wont be happy cos he/she's not ur ideal partner, and u would always feel like something's missing. it wont be pleasant for him/her either cos they're always the 2nd best. who knows one day if u meet someone who's ur ideal partner u wont run away with them? there's a saying "marriage is not finding someone u can live with (means can tolerate), but someone whom u cant live without." isnt it very true meh? the number of ppl whom u can live with is confirm greater than those u cant live without. how many ppl can truly say "oh without xxxx i'll DIE" lol. =x but really lah, nobody will die. it's just the feeling that "wa i'll definitely die loh". -.-
how many ppl can say "i love u" and really mean it? it's ridiculous how many ppl are abusing these 3 words. when u misuse them, the one time that u really really want to express how u feel truly u would feel that these 3 words just arent enough. it's hard to get a relationship going as u get to know each other better and know their bad habits/weaknesses etc. how strong does a love have to be to withstand such tests?
and in virtual world...i was actually quite against such things. like in maple, majority of the players are kids loh yet they can get married in-game. x.x and...it's easy to get married or get divorced. spreading bad morals much? o.o yeah i understand these are just games...but it's still ppl who are playing them right?
aiyo type till i also forgot what was my main point liao. suan le...x.x
*thisismymagicaltale*